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Brandon West: From Control to Stewardship in Leadership
Are your professional pursuits driven by purpose or merely profit? In this episode of Seek Go Create - The Leadership Journey, guest Brandon West shares his transformative journey from viewing himself as a CEO to embracing his role as a "chief purpose officer." Join host Tim Winders and Brandon as they delve into how integrating faith with business can create impactful, purpose-driven leadership that transcends traditional success metrics. Discover practical insights and inspiring stories that will challenge you to rethink your approach to work and life.
"In business, we should shift from profits-centered to purpose-driven, focusing more on 'we' than 'me'." - Brandon West
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About Our Guest:
Brandon West is a visionary entrepreneur, author, and pastor who founded PHOS Creative, a purpose-driven marketing agency dedicated to integrating faith and business. With a profound commitment to marketplace ministry, Brandon has launched 17 care centers across 11 countries. His debut book, "It's Not Your Business to Succeed," challenges conventional success metrics, advocating for leadership grounded in faith and purpose. Brandon's blend of business acumen and pastoral wisdom offers unique insights into leading with integrity and impact.
Reasons to Listen:
- Discover Purpose Beyond Profits: Learn how Brandon West integrates faith and business to transform traditional profit-driven models into purpose-driven missions, establishing 17 care centers in 11 countries.
- Navigate Modern Workforce Pressures: Delve into Brandon's insights on tackling the anxiety and high-pressure success metrics faced by today's young professionals, especially those in academic environments like the University of Florida.
- Reframe Leadership and Success: Explore the enlightening conversation on shifting from control to stewardship, emphasizing faithfulness over outcomes, and embracing gentleness and emotional intelligence in leadership.
Episode Resources & Action Steps:
Resources Mentioned:
- Book: "It's Not Your Business to Succeed" by Brandon West - Available on Amazon and provides insights on leading with trust in God's purpose rather than focusing solely on success outcomes.
- Website: BrandonMichaelWest.com - Houses additional resources such as podcasts, articles, and further information about Brandon West’s work and philosophy.
- Agency: PHOS Creative - Offers marketing and branding resources and has published free guides for strategic planning and fostering a flourishing workplace culture.
Action Steps:
- Embrace Purpose Over Profit: Reflect on the mission and vision of your own business or professional endeavors. Consider how you can shift from a profit-driven to a purpose-driven approach, integrating values and a higher purpose into everyday business practices.
- Practice Gratitude and Reflection: Implement a regular gratitude exercise within your team or personal routine, similar to the gratitude exercise mentioned by Brandon West’s team. This can help maintain emotional wellness and keep focus on the small blessings and positive aspects of life.
- Transition to Stewardship Leadership: Work on changing your leadership approach from one of control to stewardship. Focus on leading with gentleness, as emphasized by Brandon West, and aim to develop a collective leadership mindset that values delegation and community involvement.
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Key Lessons:
- Finding Purpose at the Intersection of Brokenness, Opportunity, and Skill: Brandon West highlights the importance of identifying your purpose where your heart's burdens, available opportunities, and personal skills converge. This approach applies to any profession and emphasizes living a meaningful and purpose-driven life.
- Embracing Marketplace Ministry: Integrating faith and business is a central theme, challenging the notion that faith should be kept out of the marketplace. West argues that business can serve as a platform for ministry, promoting ethical leadership and a faith-filled workplace.
- Transition from Ownership to Stewardship: West's journey from seeing himself as an owner to a steward (Chief Purpose Officer) underscores the shift from control to surrender. This perspective encourages leaders to focus on faithfully fulfilling their purpose rather than controlling outcomes.
- Balancing Profit and Purpose: West advocates for purpose-driven business models, where profit serves to fuel a greater mission. This balance ensures that businesses not only thrive financially but also contribute positively to society and promote collective success.
- Emotional Wellness through Faith and Gratitude: Highlighting the importance of protecting emotional well-being, West emphasizes holding tightly to faith while practicing gratitude. Recognizing and appreciating small blessings plays a key role in maintaining emotional health and resilience.
Episode Highlights:
00:00 Introduction: Struggles with Success and Identity
00:42 Guest Introduction: Brandon West
01:33 Brandon's Personal Life and Family
03:06 Defining Success in Leadership
04:04 Purpose and Identity in Christ
11:09 Challenges Faced by the Younger Generation
12:56 Ministry in the Marketplace
19:03 Brandon's Background and Journey to Faith
25:24 Finding Love: The Toilet Paper Story
27:39 Redefining Success and Purpose
31:01 Balancing Profit and Purpose
32:44 The Five Transitions of Leadership
34:44 From Control to Surrender
43:55 The Importance of Gentleness in Leadership
47:26 Faithfulness Over Outcomes
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Transcript
. Brandon West: Oftentimes my sense of success and identity are tied
Speaker:to things they shouldn't be.
Speaker:My bottom line, my bank account, my reputation, and they're going,
Speaker:I know that's not the way it's supposed to be, but I'm having a
Speaker:hard time getting unstuck from that.
Speaker:And I'd like to trade the soul crushing weight of outcomes for the soul
Speaker:lifting joy of a life lived for God in faithfulness and surrendered to His plan
Speaker:Um, uh,
Speaker:Tim Winders (2): How do you measure true success in leadership?
Speaker:Today we're joined by Brandon West, a man of many roles, author, speaker,
Speaker:entrepreneur, and pastor at just 26, Brandon founded FOSS creative,
Speaker:a strategy first digital marketing agency that has earned accolades from.
Speaker:to the Best Christian Workplaces Institute.
Speaker:Beyond his professional success, Brandon is passionate about nurturing
Tim Winders:faith in the marketplace, mentoring at Salt Church and enjoying
Tim Winders:life's simpler pleasures with his family.
Tim Winders:We'll dive into his new book.
Tim Winders:It's not your business to succeed, which challenges conventional success
Tim Winders:metrics and guides leaders towards a life of lasting impact and purpose.
Tim Winders:Join us as we explore how Brandon's journey can inspire
Tim Winders:your own leadership path.
Tim Winders:Brandon, welcome to seek, go create.
Brandon West:Tim, what a joy, man.
Brandon West:So excited to be with you today.
Tim Winders:Speaking about life's simpler.
Tim Winders:Pleasures.
Tim Winders:How's your wife Shelly doing
Brandon West:Yeah, my wife, Shelly.
Brandon West:Amazing, amazing woman.
Brandon West:We've been married for 18 years now, and she's an avid rock climber.
Brandon West:We live in Gainesville, Florida, so Tim was guessing whether or not
Brandon West:we were on a mountain or in a gym.
Brandon West:Let's just say that we probably couldn't rock climb a mountain for
Brandon West:miles and miles, even if we wanted to.
Brandon West:So in a gym, spiral fracture on her finger, had to have Surgery,
Brandon West:but I was able to be by her bedside yesterday and pray over her and make
Brandon West:her laugh coming in and out of nerve blocks and all kinds of surgery.
Brandon West:She's doing great.
Brandon West:I was confident walking out of there that the Lord was with us the whole
Brandon West:time and that, he met us and heard our prayers and the fact that any one of
Brandon West:us can say that about God's presence, given who we are, and our brokenness,
Brandon West:our sinfulness is just an amazing.
Brandon West:Privilege and delight.
Brandon West:So she's doing great.
Brandon West:Super thankful.
Tim Winders:Good.
Tim Winders:Now, is she gonna, is there any discussion yet about when she's going to get
Tim Winders:back on the wall or climbing again?
Tim Winders:Or is it, she's going to have to like take a pickleball or
Tim Winders:what's, what's happening there?
Brandon West:Well, fortunately she likes pickleball as well, so that'll hopefully
Brandon West:be sooner, but she's also like, am I going to be able to grip the paddle?
Brandon West:I don't know if it was her, she would be back on the wall tomorrow.
Brandon West:So we'll see.
Tim Winders:Well, anyway, we got the message like, we were
Tim Winders:supposed to hit record yesterday.
Tim Winders:Glory got the message.
Tim Winders:So we did pray for y'all and expected good things from that.
Tim Winders:And, anyway, I've got more questions later about family and things like that.
Tim Winders:But let me dive into question number one here.
Tim Winders:And it's kind of my, it used to be sort of icebreaker issue.
Tim Winders:Now it's kind of got a little bit deeper.
Tim Winders:So here's your choices.
Tim Winders:Okay.
Tim Winders:Brandon, you could either answer the typical networking, what do you do?
Tim Winders:Which is fine.
Tim Winders:I love that question.
Tim Winders:Or you can answer the much more metaphysically deep, who are you?
Tim Winders:Question.
Tim Winders:So which question do you want to take and run with and go
Tim Winders:ahead and answer it for us?
Brandon West:I'm going to answer what you do, but I'm going
Brandon West:to answer it for this reason.
Brandon West:I love and I am inspired by lives of men and women whose answer to
Brandon West:the question, what you do begins with a definition of who you are.
Brandon West:I love when men and women, leaders who I respect, leaders worth following.
Brandon West:are doing what they do based on a deep understanding of who they are.
Brandon West:I am a man created in the likeness of an eternal God who was once separated
Brandon West:from him by my sin, my rebellion, who God in his kindness sent his son
Brandon West:to be a sacrifice for my sin so that I could be freed from my sin, And
Brandon West:live for him and for his glory by delighting in him for all of eternity.
Brandon West:He has created me in Christ Jesus for good works and by his grace, he's opened
Brandon West:my eyes to moving away from a life of selfishness and pride and rebellion to
Brandon West:one lived in surrender and joy for him.
Brandon West:And that leads me to get to do the things that I feel he's called me to.
Brandon West:Each one of us created with a unique purpose inside of that unique
Brandon West:Positioning of who we are in Christ.
Brandon West:my personal mission is to pastor leaders in the marketplace.
Brandon West:That's what I do.
Brandon West:I do that through a really cool agency called FOSCreative.
Brandon West:And I get to do that in my home.
Brandon West:When I walk home to my wife and to my kids, and I get to pastor them, I get to
Brandon West:do that when I walk into my church here in Gainesville Salt Church, I get to do
Brandon West:that when I walk onto a stage like this.
Brandon West:I get to do that when I walk into a small group of young
Brandon West:married couples that we lead.
Brandon West:Everywhere I go, by the grace of God, lean into who he's created me to be,
Brandon West:to do what he's created me to do.
Tim Winders:That's a great response there, Brandon.
Tim Winders:You know, there, There's a lot of words that we throw around in our
Tim Winders:culture today, especially in the, we'll call it the Christian circles,
Tim Winders:you know, purpose and impact and, you know, word, words like that.
Tim Winders:I was joking with someone I was interviewing that long ago that when
Tim Winders:I was a full out heathen, I never thought anything of that, you know,
Tim Winders:it wasn't even didn't cross my mind.
Tim Winders:But when, you know, cause I, I know your, I think you're in your thirties.
Tim Winders:Is that correct?
Brandon West:just 38.
Tim Winders:Okay.
Tim Winders:All right.
Tim Winders:it's time's marching on Brandon.
Tim Winders:So I just turned 61.
Tim Winders:So let me I can give you a glimpse of the future but When how long do
Tim Winders:you think you would have responded?
Tim Winders:That way to that question.
Tim Winders:I mean like go back 10 years 20 30, whatever Or was it last week that
Tim Winders:you rolled out of bed and say oh now I know Who I am and what did it give
Tim Winders:me a little bit of perspective of?
Tim Winders:When you have stepped into that, Who you are and what you do type response.
Brandon West:Yeah.
Brandon West:Tim, I fully agree with you that purpose is sort of a first world problem.
Brandon West:And I get it.
Brandon West:Like, I remember two years ago, I'm driving down to this big party that
Brandon West:we're doing for foes, rent out this giant mansion to celebrate 10 years in business.
Brandon West:And on the way down, the podcast I chose to listen to was on Purposed as an Idol.
Brandon West:As much as I love living from Purposed, Purposed can Almost be distracting like
Brandon West:I'm seeking something that isn't God Its purpose is not God purposes from God it
Brandon West:you know people in the the developing world Often don't talk about purpose.
Brandon West:It's hard to translate into other languages I think where I'm coming from
Brandon West:it's I have this revelation recently that my Christian journey It started 20
Brandon West:years ago, actually began with Purpose.
Brandon West:I was reading Rick Warren's The Purpose Driven Life, and he was talking
Brandon West:about giving your life to Christ and purpose, like, write this letter to God
Brandon West:surrendering your life and like calling out for God's purpose in your life.
Brandon West:And I just thought, I've never done this before.
Brandon West:And I just wrote, Dear God, you know, come up.
Brandon West:And I'm writing this letter like, I don't want my life anymore.
Brandon West:I want yours.
Brandon West:And I think that was the first time I stepped.
Brandon West:towards purpose.
Brandon West:All of us have the exact same purpose, go and make disciples of all of the
Brandon West:world, baptizing them in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
Brandon West:That's everyone's purpose.
Brandon West:And yet there are these unique components where we can just go,
Brandon West:look, it doesn't define who I am to pursue or do this one specific thing.
Brandon West:People's purposes aren't tied to activities.
Brandon West:They're tied to Who we are becoming because as soon as you say, well, my
Brandon West:purpose is doing this thing and then you lose that job You lost your purpose.
Brandon West:My job was my purpose and now God's like, I don't want to strip that from you.
Brandon West:That's not your purpose Your purpose is for me Blessing my people bringing
Brandon West:something to the world and who you are and the message that I've given
Brandon West:you to steward I think purpose is a long journey And we asked simple
Brandon West:questions along the way to define it.
Brandon West:we make small steps towards a brave, long journey towards purpose.
Brandon West:Andy Stanley would say this purpose is found at the
Brandon West:intersection of a broken heart.
Brandon West:Opportunity and skill.
Brandon West:What breaks your heart?
Brandon West:Where is there brokenness and opportunity in the world?
Brandon West:And what skills do you have to bring to the table to solve that
Brandon West:brokenness and step into those places?
Brandon West:Purpose You can do that being a fry cooker at McDonald's.
Brandon West:You can do that tilling the soil in a farm.
Brandon West:You can do that as an entrepreneur.
Brandon West:You can do that, wherever God's called you to, and in the middle
Brandon West:of that, you can find purpose.
Tim Winders:Yeah, I do.
Tim Winders:It's interesting.
Tim Winders:Something that just came to mind and I don't remember the exact source of this,
Tim Winders:but it was someone who is, it was in a book, I believe that was talking about,
Tim Winders:they were talking to their grandfather about what his purpose had been.
Tim Winders:And this was someone who'd come through the depression and things like that.
Tim Winders:he kind of scoffed would be a nice word to say what his grandfather said.
Tim Winders:Purpose.
Tim Winders:He goes, I got up every day, I attempted to get to my job so that I could bring
Tim Winders:money in to keep food on our table.
Tim Winders:That was what I was there for.
Tim Winders:So I do think there's a certain degree of, like you said, first worldness
Tim Winders:that maybe allows us a little bit of too much luxury to think about this
Tim Winders:and maybe even overthink about it.
Tim Winders:I know that you are in a college town.
Tim Winders:Sarah, I know there's a community college there.
Tim Winders:Is there a university there in Gainesville?
Tim Winders:I can't recall.
Brandon West:There's a giant community college,
Tim Winders:There is.
Brandon West:And then there's this other big school called
Brandon West:the University of Florida where the Gators play and Tim Tebow
Tim Winders:Yeah.
Tim Winders:so my point is, being originally from the Atlanta area and all,
Tim Winders:and I went to Georgia Tech, but my wife went to University of Georgia.
Tim Winders:So there's probably something there that we don't need to get into, but
Tim Winders:there's a lot of young people around and
Tim Winders:I'm guessing there's a heavy, heavy young population there.
Tim Winders:What are you seeing?
Tim Winders:What are they going through?
Tim Winders:What's the biggest challenges?
Tim Winders:What are they facing in this world that we're in today, where we're recording
Tim Winders:this in late 24, people might be listening in, in 2025, give me some observations.
Brandon West:Yeah.
Brandon West:I'm going to speak from the perspective of where I sit right
Brandon West:now, We live in a generation full of anxiety and anxiousness and
Brandon West:Gainesville, the University of Florida.
Brandon West:is full of that.
Brandon West:it's interesting because the university is pumping out the anxious
Brandon West:generation of people who believe that the career they get and the
Brandon West:money they make is their purpose.
Brandon West:It is the definition of who they are.
Brandon West:And when the position is high in the organization and the
Brandon West:salary is high, I am successful.
Brandon West:And when those things are low, regardless of what I do, I am not successful.
Brandon West:I've missed something I have missed out on my potential in life.
Brandon West:And we see those things as the greatest evil in our society, and
Brandon West:what they do is they create anxiety.
Brandon West:They create a sense of our definition and worth tied to what we do, what we make.
Brandon West:And I am so tempted to do that, even in my own leadership.
Brandon West:When things are up and to the right, I am a great leader.
Brandon West:And when things are flat or down, I'm thinking, Lord, what have I done?
Brandon West:what sin did this man's parents commit that he would be born blind?
Brandon West:Like, we're just tempted to go there.
Brandon West:Everything broken in my life is broken.
Brandon West:In me, and that is a really hard place to anchor our identity.
Tim Winders:what is it like?
Tim Winders:Cause I know you have a business in that.
Tim Winders:atmosphere.
Tim Winders:You also have a church, so you do ministry.
Tim Winders:what is it like for you personally just to be in that atmosphere?
Tim Winders:But first of all, just hit each one of those.
Tim Winders:What's it like to have a ministry where you're attempting to be
Tim Winders:salt, I'm assuming, in that atmosphere, in that environment?
Tim Winders:And then maybe talk about what it's like to have a company in that environment.
Brandon West:Well, here's the first thing that I would say.
Brandon West:Um, I don't see the work that I do at my church as ministry and the
Brandon West:things that I do at my business as my corporate marketplace leadership, when
Brandon West:people ask me, Oh, you're a pastor.
Brandon West:So you're like full time there.
Brandon West:I'm like, no, no, no.
Brandon West:I'm just, I'm a volunteer elder and pastor.
Brandon West:They're like, Oh, okay.
Brandon West:So you're not in full time ministry.
Brandon West:So no, no, I am in full time ministry.
Brandon West:And they're like, but you said you weren't full time in your church.
Brandon West:I was like, yeah, I'm in full time ministry at my business.
Brandon West:We We call it business as a ministry.
Brandon West:Bam.
Brandon West:That the reason that we exist is not some lifestyle business where I'm
Brandon West:trying to raise up as much money as possible so I can go play pickleball and
Brandon West:rock climb with my wife all day long.
Brandon West:I'm not trying to raise up so much EBITDA in the company that I can
Brandon West:go have some big exit one day.
Brandon West:I'm seeing actually right now.
Brandon West:Day to day, quarter by quarter and year by year, the grace of God displayed
Brandon West:in us chasing not fame, not glory, not money, but using everything we've been
Brandon West:given every platform, every influence, every bit of power and control or
Brandon West:finances that we've been, we've been granted to see it as a steward to
Brandon West:go and leverage it for care, love, compassion, evangelism, and ministry.
Brandon West:Our mission.
Brandon West:As a company is to cultivate true flourishing in people and
Brandon West:organizations while reflecting the love of Jesus to the world.
Brandon West:Our Our vision is to launch 30 care centers around the world that care
Brandon West:for women and children impacted by extreme poverty and sex trafficking.
Brandon West:We just launched our 17th care center now in 11 different
Brandon West:countries serving over 2, 400.
Brandon West:women and children.
Brandon West:To offer that, that is, that is ministry.
Brandon West:Even Billy Graham said that he believed the next big movement of God was
Brandon West:going to come through the marketplace.
Brandon West:I love what I get to do at Salt Church.
Brandon West:It's one aspect of my ministry.
Brandon West:But if each of us would just simply go, no, no, I am a full
Brandon West:time minister of the gospel.
Brandon West:Every single leader is a pastor, because you have influence and
Brandon West:you're working with people.
Brandon West:You get influence of people, you get to lead people, you get to manage
Brandon West:people, you get to shepherd people, you get to guide people somewhere.
Brandon West:And all of us are doing that.
Brandon West:The question is, who are they becoming?
Brandon West:Under our leadership, under our ministry.
Brandon West:that's leadership worth investing in.
Tim Winders:But Brandon, you know this, that a lot of people really
Tim Winders:do believe that you're supposed to keep those things separate.
Tim Winders:I'm not saying that I do, but, I bring this up often here.
Tim Winders:I spent some time at Bible school a handful of years ago and there really
Tim Winders:is this pecking order of, you know, this is the way you serve God, you
Tim Winders:missionary in a third world country.
Tim Winders:That's like the most virtuous.
Tim Winders:And then it just keeps kind of going down, but you know, you're Speaking
Tim Winders:my language here, what do you say to people that say, Oh, come on, Brandon,
Tim Winders:you need to keep these things separate.
Brandon West:Yeah, first, I empathize with the people who believe
Brandon West:that church, faith, religion and business should be kept separate.
Brandon West:That is the resounding marketplace position for any Christian leader.
Brandon West:And we only need a single cake baker.
Brandon West:Or another person to make the news or wind up in the Supreme Court being
Brandon West:sued for their Christian positioning in the marketplace to believe that
Brandon West:doing so is a waste of our resources.
Brandon West:I remember hearing about, David Green, the CEO of Hobby Lobby, once speaking
Brandon West:to one of his executive board members about, They're positioning in the
Brandon West:marketplace as a business, as a ministry.
Brandon West:And one of their risk analysis guys came by one of their legal people
Brandon West:and said, like, why would we do this?
Brandon West:Like what a risk.
Brandon West:And he sat there and told the man a story about the gospel
Brandon West:and the gospel going forth.
Brandon West:And the man with tears in his eyes left his office and he
Brandon West:didn't ever ask him again.
Brandon West:David's point was, why would we risk, why would we take
Brandon West:all these risks for business?
Brandon West:Debt, expansion, marketplace domination, new product lines,
Brandon West:new service, new people, open a new store, all these huge risks.
Brandon West:Huge risk with gigantic possible downsides.
Brandon West:But then over here, we're like, Hey, we have an opportunity here.
Brandon West:All these people who walk in every day for the gospel, for love, compassion,
Brandon West:ministry, empathy, discipleship, Bible study, prayer, growing them
Brandon West:as spiritual leaders in their home.
Brandon West:too great of a risk.
Brandon West:I empathize with the person who goes, you know what?
Brandon West:I bought into everything I got on the news yesterday.
Brandon West:I think I'm going to step out.
Brandon West:And that's one option.
Brandon West:Do your business, do great work.
Brandon West:You know, even Martin Luther would say, you don't have to put a Christian
Brandon West:fish on the side of your shoes to be a God pleasing Christian shoemaker.
Brandon West:You don't have to do that, but man, what an opportunity when we give up that
Brandon West:we give up when we waste our business.
Brandon West:We waste our business on the next earnings report when people are broken and people
Brandon West:are hurting and people are suffering.
Brandon West:And we have the best answer in the world.
Brandon West:And the best that we could tell them is no invest in these docs over here.
Brandon West:And I'm sure you'll be fine.
Brandon West:One day, what a, what an inappropriate answer for somebody who truly believes
Brandon West:that, The best answer to all of their brokenness isn't more finances, more
Brandon West:pharmaceuticals, more fill in the blank, and we're going, actually, this gospel
Brandon West:message is really good news to you.
Brandon West:It's good news to your soul.
Brandon West:It's hard.
Brandon West:There's a lot of risk involved, but where would we rather take
Brandon West:the risk as a faithful leader?
Tim Winders:And what's truthfully, what's the alternative?
Tim Winders:If people really understand the alternative, it is the choice.
Tim Winders:Did you grow up?
Tim Winders:In and around the church, I mean, were you, you know, from reading through
Tim Winders:your book here, it is not your business to succeed, which fits so well into
Tim Winders:what we do here at, Seek Go Create.
Tim Winders:did you grow up in and around the church?
Tim Winders:Do you think you might be moving into like a traditional ministry role or
Tim Winders:give me a little bit of your background?
Brandon West:Yeah, so good.
Brandon West:I was interviewing somebody the other day and we were, I was attempting
Brandon West:to test their level of desire to join a company whose mission is by
Brandon West:choice, exceedingly Jesus centric.
Brandon West:And she turned to me and her response was, I'm, I'm good with it.
Brandon West:I speak Christian.
Brandon West:Bye bye.
Brandon West:And we, her and I both just started laughing out loud because we knew
Brandon West:exactly what she was trying to say.
Tim Winders:Yeah.
Brandon West:I told her, I was like, look, we do not hire here based
Brandon West:on any preference, any position.
Brandon West:We hire everyone in the marketplace.
Brandon West:I just want every single person on the team to go, we have this
Brandon West:mission and it's about reflecting love of Jesus to the world.
Brandon West:I see in that historical figure, a love worth exemplifying.
Brandon West:I'm excited to be on this team.
Brandon West:We've had non, non believers on this team say that to me, and I turned to
Brandon West:them and said, that is why I hired you.
Brandon West:That is why you are here.
Brandon West:I didn't grow up, around, you know, Strong, faithful, gospel
Brandon West:centered, Bible driven, church focused leadership in my home.
Brandon West:I grew up in a loving home with parents that loved me really well, did fun things
Brandon West:with me, made life really enjoyable, took me to Bible camps and took me
Brandon West:to church on Easter and Christmas and a few times in between, but there
Brandon West:wasn't a deep love and affection for Christ and the gospel and Jesus.
Brandon West:But I'm thankful for the platform that they gave me.
Brandon West:I think I met Christ most face to face reading that book that I mentioned, The
Brandon West:Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren, but it came out of a summer in which I had
Brandon West:met a man at a Christian summer camp who to me, Seemed like the best example of a
Brandon West:true Christian that I had ever met before.
Brandon West:There was something about him where I said, man, whatever,
Brandon West:whatever joy juice you're drinking, like, I want some of it, man.
Brandon West:Because whatever you are, I want to be when I grow up.
Brandon West:And I think the Holy Spirit eventually brought to me this message of either
Brandon West:The conviction of my heart was either they're like a really super Christian
Brandon West:and I'm just like a nominal Christian, or they're a real Christian and I've
Brandon West:actually never tasted of the gospel.
Brandon West:And, when I was 16 years old, surrendered my life to Christ,
Brandon West:writing that Dear God letter.
Brandon West:And God's just taken me at each step and gone, I have something more for you.
Brandon West:And it's, it starts with a deep affection for me.
Tim Winders:Did that, were you thinking at that point that you were going
Tim Winders:to do something in a ministry space?
Tim Winders:Were you going to go out into the marketplace?
Tim Winders:where was your path leading and guiding you at that late teenage?
Tim Winders:Because we all know exactly what we're going to do when we're 16, right?
Brandon West:I think growing up, I wanted to be whatever every
Brandon West:other young boy wanted to be.
Brandon West:I wanted to be an astronaut or a jet pilot or something awesome or work with, you
Brandon West:know, big trucks and things like that.
Brandon West:Eventually you start going through these classes in high school
Brandon West:that are talking about careers and you're like, This is real.
Brandon West:This is a thing.
Brandon West:And one of the first questions you start asking is how much
Brandon West:money do each of them make?
Brandon West:And so you just, you go up the chart to the one that has the highest number
Brandon West:and you say, fine, I'll be that.
Brandon West:And for me, that, that number on the top was a lawyer.
Brandon West:I was like, Oh, I love debating with my mom.
Brandon West:And that, that lawyer has a lot of zeros behind it.
Brandon West:Like I can do that.
Brandon West:I'll figure it out.
Brandon West:By the time I got to college, God had renewed my heart
Brandon West:and given me a fresh desire.
Brandon West:It was, I wanted to do something that I loved to do.
Brandon West:Joined the University of Florida, started in the graphic design program.
Brandon West:But I'm literally, my wife is an artist.
Brandon West:I'm in this graphic design program being told, you're not going to touch
Brandon West:a computer until your third year.
Brandon West:So I'm over in my kitchen painting Bob Roth, while she's over in her apartment,
Brandon West:dying doing chemistry and mathematics.
Brandon West:So we would just switch.
Brandon West:She'd be painting my landscapes and I'd be doing her math homework and both of
Brandon West:us were like, I don't think we're at the university for the right things.
Brandon West:So, we got married after our first year of college, moved in together.
Brandon West:At 19, we had our first kid.
Brandon West:At 24, we had our second kid.
Brandon West:And then at 26, I started, my company.
Brandon West:As I finished out the University of Florida, uh, I was like, this is, I
Brandon West:didn't come to UF to paint paintings.
Brandon West:So I switched to family youth and community sciences, believing that
Brandon West:that was the best thing UF had to offer me to go into pastoral ministry.
Brandon West:But then when I talked to my pastor a year later, he was like,
Brandon West:If you want to be a pastor, why aren't you studying the Classics?
Brandon West:And I was like, what is that?
Brandon West:I don't even know.
Brandon West:And he's like, that's Greek and Latin language, Greek and Roman history.
Brandon West:And I was like, that's John MacArthur's secret sauce.
Brandon West:That's why he's so good at teaching.
Brandon West:So I switched over, I completed my degree in Classical Studies
Brandon West:with an emphasis in Koine Greek.
Brandon West:A business administration minor, and basically what I got from all of that
Brandon West:was the name of my company, Phosts, which is the Greek word for light.
Tim Winders:I'm glad you explained that because I told you
Tim Winders:I'm going to need to ask that.
Tim Winders:But I want to say I want to back up just a second because we have from the RV here,
Tim Winders:the 39 foot RV, we have an incredible research staff that's in the back there.
Tim Winders:And in the midst of the research for this interview, Brandon, we did find out
Tim Winders:that you may have had one of the best.
Tim Winders:I don't even know if it's a pet.
Tim Winders:Pick up line or a way to find a, an incredible woman that we may have heard.
Tim Winders:And so we are going to need to get your tips on how to find a wife.
Tim Winders:How did you capture this Shelly?
Tim Winders:Who's rock climber, brilliant, always sound like that.
Tim Winders:So you gotta, you gotta give the tip here.
Tim Winders:Our research staff did the research.
Tim Winders:So tell us that story.
Brandon West:I will submit to you that while I'm about to give you this and have
Brandon West:recommended to my sons that they follow in like path, they have disagreed with me.
Brandon West:on the effectiveness of this particular methodology for finding the woman of your
Brandon West:dreams that God's called you to be with.
Brandon West:So we're in high school and when we go to the same youth group, we don't
Brandon West:realize it's at a big megachurch.
Brandon West:we had this, this, friend in common.
Brandon West:So I didn't know Shelly.
Brandon West:She didn't know me, but we both knew this one friend.
Brandon West:Well, they had this running gag going back and forth on
Brandon West:So that night, Mike walks into youth group, it's near Christmas, about
Brandon West:this time of the year, and Shelly hands Mike this Christmas present.
Brandon West:And it is a bag full of six rolls of toilet paper.
Brandon West:So in the middle of youth group, he and I go out to the parking lot and
Brandon West:from head to toe wrap her yellow Honda civic hatchback in toilet paper.
Brandon West:So you, it was, it turned white.
Brandon West:We took every single one of those toilet paper rolls and hung
Brandon West:it on her antenna on her car.
Brandon West:After youth group, she comes out, sees this, has a great laugh.
Brandon West:And we hop in her vehicle.
Brandon West:And that night, Shelly and I fall in love talking about.
Brandon West:scuba diving, Jesus, music, toilet paper, each other's cars, and she
Brandon West:teaches me how to, how to drive stick shift in the middle of our So my
Brandon West:sons disagree with me disobediently, but yeah, I mean, if it worked for
Brandon West:me, it must work for all other men.
Brandon West:See if you can toilet paper their vehicle, like Target,
Brandon West:church, wherever it needs to be.
Tim Winders:Yeah, I think maybe there's more a message
Tim Winders:of God's sense of humor, grace.
Tim Winders:Maybe you think, or is that a tactic?
Tim Winders:I mean, do you, I mean, I, you know, a little, a little booklet on, you
Tim Winders:know, toilet paper, her car, she'll love you forever and I don't think so.
Brandon West:Gary Thomas's five love languages.
Brandon West:Like, it's an extra one for some women where it's like my love language.
Brandon West:is toilet paper.
Brandon West:So it's just, it's a sixth one.
Brandon West:You rarely get to that one in the book though.
Tim Winders:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Tim Winders:But, anyway, I, yeah, we, we saw that somewhere and said,
Tim Winders:oh, that's pretty humorous.
Tim Winders:So.
Tim Winders:Alright.
Tim Winders:So, so somewhere along the way, and, and I wanna jump a little bit to
Tim Winders:the topic of your book, which is, it's Not Your Business to Succeed.
Tim Winders:I had to read that like a few times to kind of grasp it, but it fits so well
Tim Winders:into this foundational thing that I want to kind of ask right now, which is at.
Tim Winders:At that time in your life, you kind of did a real quick of college.
Tim Winders:You did some work, then you started your company at 26.
Tim Winders:But how were you defining success?
Tim Winders:What was success to you during that season of your life?
Brandon West:I think success to each of us, like we define it
Brandon West:differently, at least when it's healthy, but when it's unhealthy,
Brandon West:most of us define it the same way.
Brandon West:If I get this salary, if I'm able to achieve this income level, once I have
Brandon West:this much in my savings account, once I'm able to check off these number of
Brandon West:countries that I've visited, Once I have these, this number of kids, once we have
Brandon West:this number of bedrooms in our home, once I have this many followers on Instagram,
Brandon West:fill in the blank, once I have power, once I have money, once I have prestige,
Brandon West:once I have fame, I will be successful.
Brandon West:I think when I started my company, really all I wanted to do at
Brandon West:the time was to be successful.
Brandon West:Was just do what I loved doing all day long.
Brandon West:I remember when we built the first ever website for folks and
Brandon West:my wife and I, my wife just asked me this very simple question.
Brandon West:Will there be anywhere on the website where the name Jesus appears
Brandon West:like anywhere on the website?
Brandon West:Will you see the words, the word Jesus anywhere?
Brandon West:Is it going to be white on white backgrounds?
Brandon West:This is going to be anywhere through the little fish at the bottom.
Brandon West:And we just decided, no, no, we are going to do work excellently.
Brandon West:Amen.
Brandon West:for God's glory, and that's going to be enough, and that is enough.
Brandon West:There is a beauty in this and a simplicity to that.
Brandon West:I was reading Gary Thomas's book right now, Sacred Marriage, and he opens up
Brandon West:with, the father speaking over the son.
Brandon West:this is my son in whom I'm well pleased.
Brandon West:And he goes, what did Jesus done in his ministry at that point that
Brandon West:the father could say over him?
Brandon West:You are my son in whom I'm well pleased.
Brandon West:Like, what had he done?
Brandon West:He, like, obeyed his parents, gone to synagogue, helped out
Brandon West:in his father's carpentry.
Brandon West:That was about it.
Brandon West:And you're just like, well, he said that because of who he is.
Brandon West:And I'm like, oh, shoot.
Brandon West:Like, God would say over me, you are my son in whom I'm well
Brandon West:pleased, just because of who I am.
Brandon West:Like, there's a real beauty in you.
Brandon West:To that, but as we surrender to that, we also get to go now created in Christ.
Brandon West:And it was from there that God began to open up purpose and
Brandon West:ministry and what that looks like.
Tim Winders:I'm going to go to Matthew 6 and I'll say, I'll go to that scripture
Tim Winders:that says you can't serve two masters.
Tim Winders:and I will say that the companies I started were looking to
Tim Winders:serve that master of mammon.
Tim Winders:I'll go ahead and be blunt about that.
Tim Winders:What was the balance of those two?
Tim Winders:If there was a balance at all, when you started the business,
Tim Winders:because, here's where this really.
Tim Winders:Becomes a challenge for people that are wired for business These are
Tim Winders:the people that are listening in to a lot of leaders and all that.
Tim Winders:It's like how do they strike that balance between?
Tim Winders:The master that they serve and so i'm trying to drill down to ask you maybe
Tim Winders:What was your journey like was it like?
Tim Winders:Oh, no, I woke up one morning and I said nope I'm i'm serving the lord and
Tim Winders:I am not serving mammon or Was there a process that you went through there?
Brandon West:Yeah, I will say this.
Brandon West:I think in a healthy company, there is no tension between profit and purpose.
Brandon West:In a healthy company, profit is a means of fueling purpose.
Brandon West:In an unhealthy company, you're like, Well, I can't do purpose
Brandon West:because I don't have profit.
Brandon West:Like, well, I can't do profit because I'm seeking purpose
Brandon West:They're like, no, no, no.
Brandon West:We're chasing this great purpose and finding a really profitable model.
Brandon West:That's going to help us sustain that.
Brandon West:We say at Fost that we want to run a great business for a greater purpose.
Brandon West:It didn't start that way.
Brandon West:I did just want to run a great business.
Brandon West:I knew it was a platform, but it would be a platform in a very personal way.
Brandon West:That's not a bad thing.
Brandon West:Again, back to that Luther quote, you don't have to put a Christian fish on
Brandon West:a shoe to be a Christian shoemaker.
Brandon West:That pleases God.
Brandon West:But as it grows, there is this transition, these, these transitions that happen
Brandon West:between business for business sake.
Brandon West:And business for God's sake.
Brandon West:I've been musing on this concept recently.
Brandon West:I recently read a book called The Intentional Father by John Tyson.
Brandon West:An incredible book.
Brandon West:For fathers, I cannot recommend this book enough.
Brandon West:If I can do 20 percent of the things in this book, I'll be one of the
Brandon West:best fathers in all of history.
Brandon West:It is so, so good.
Brandon West:But one of the things I've been musing on, he mentions in the book
Brandon West:these five transitions that a boy makes from boyhood to manhood.
Brandon West:Things like, he moves from the easy to hard, he begins to think less about the
Brandon West:earthly, and he thinks about the eternal.
Brandon West:And I've been thinking, like, as an entrepreneur, this, this, this,
Brandon West:this transition, these transitions that happen over time to become a
Brandon West:real business as a ministry leader.
Brandon West:Those five shifts that I've been thinking through are from profit
Brandon West:centered to purpose driven.
Brandon West:Or somebody says it was just about profit and profit was at the
Brandon West:center, but now it's purpose driven.
Brandon West:It doesn't mean that it's profit lists.
Brandon West:It's not profit discenter.
Brandon West:That would be unprofitable for the business in every meaning of that word.
Brandon West:But we shift from profit to purpose driven, purpose driven positioning.
Brandon West:I think that leader also shifts from me to we, oftentimes an entrepreneur,
Brandon West:like you start at the center.
Brandon West:People love to say, Oh, Brandon, you're, you know, you're, these awards that you've
Brandon West:gotten for being an employer, you do such a great job leading your company.
Brandon West:Look what you've done.
Brandon West:Look what you've accomplished.
Brandon West:I'm like, look, first, there's no God in that equation.
Brandon West:Secondly, I have an incredible team of people behind this door who are leading
Brandon West:out on all the things that our culture is.
Brandon West:And our culture is strong and it's beautiful and it's rich.
Brandon West:Maybe it started me, but at some point we shift to we.
Brandon West:We shift to shared leadership, delegation, collaboration, over competition, the
Brandon West:need for community around me to fuel my leadership, fill in for my weaknesses and
Brandon West:my gaps and make something happen that's far beyond my ability alone as a leader.
Brandon West:I think that that leader shifts from control to surrender.
Brandon West:I am a recovering control freak,
Brandon West:Like, I want to have my hands on everything.
Brandon West:I want to control it.
Brandon West:And then when you shift from me to we, you actually have to surrender more.
Brandon West:And you're like, okay, I'm just a steward.
Brandon West:I have to release my identity from the company.
Brandon West:I'm not self reliant anymore.
Brandon West:I'm, you know, I made it happen in the beginning.
Brandon West:I started this up.
Brandon West:It's like, oh, actually, God, you've done all this.
Brandon West:And if you've done this, I am so desperate for you to do more.
Brandon West:In the future, I think that they shift from short term wins to kingdom
Brandon West:outcomes, where we go, it's, it's not just about 90 day excellence.
Brandon West:It's about multi year legacy that I can leave in this.
Brandon West:And then finally, I think that they shift from ownership to stewardship.
Brandon West:I'm the owner of this business.
Brandon West:I'm the CEO.
Brandon West:I call myself now, folks, the, the CPO, the Chief Purpose Officer, that
Brandon West:really at the end of the day, my job is about stewarding what God's done,
Brandon West:a purpose that's worth working for, so that these people get to walk in and
Brandon West:go, what a joy it is to be a part of something that's so much bigger than
Brandon West:just banging on my keyboard every day.
Brandon West:So what it started as, what it is now, I think all of us as entrepreneurs,
Brandon West:the more we move towards business as a ministry, we shift from, you know,
Brandon West:Profits that are purpose driven from me to we, from control to surrender,
Brandon West:short term wins to kingdom outcomes, and from ownership to stewardship.
Tim Winders:I love that the way that answer flowed and it led to,
Tim Winders:I think that exclamation point of ownership versus stewardship.
Tim Winders:You talk about stewardship in the book and stewardship is something that we've
Tim Winders:talked a good bit about here as someone who has adhered to the statement.
Tim Winders:If it is to be, it's up to me in the past as someone who is
Tim Winders:somewhat of a control person also.
Tim Winders:So I think that journey is.
Tim Winders:one of the biggest challenges That we go through and I think I love the
Tim Winders:subtitle brook You can't you know what to do in your leadership role when you
Tim Winders:can't control your outcomes and that's kind of tough for control people.
Tim Winders:I think that's part of our journey many of our leadership journey
Tim Winders:So let's talk a little bit about your journey What has happened?
Tim Winders:That has allowed you and I and my guess if you're watching this If we're
Tim Winders:honest here, you probably haven't done a total surrender with the outcomes
Tim Winders:don't matter and things like that.
Tim Winders:So you could talk about what that might be, and I'm not sure
Tim Winders:that we're supposed to, but maybe that's something we can look at.
Tim Winders:Talk a little bit about the journey you've been on.
Tim Winders:To go from control freak to the statement that you just made at the end
Tim Winders:of that last, comment you were making of thinking more of being a steward
Tim Winders:as opposed to an owner, because a lot of people would say, Oh, you're the
Tim Winders:owner of the company, but no, you use terms like we use terms like stewards.
Tim Winders:So talk about the journey you've been on.
Tim Winders:Cause I think people need to understand some steps along the way,
Brandon West:Yeah, it breaks my heart for myself and for the other leaders around me
Brandon West:that we so often tie our sense of success.
Brandon West:To outcomes that we cannot control.
Brandon West:What have I walked through?
Brandon West:Well, one of the things I've walked
Tim Winders:but we think we can though, right?
Tim Winders:Brandon, do we fool ourselves into thinking we can at times?
Brandon West:well, it's worked sometimes.
Brandon West:the problem is it worked sometimes you're like, well, I set my
Brandon West:heart to this and it went great.
Brandon West:Therefore I am an awesome leader.
Brandon West:My control is out of this world.
Brandon West:And when I control things, I do great work.
Brandon West:Look at the wake behind me.
Brandon West:The problem is sometimes it doesn't work.
Brandon West:And we go, I gave myself to this in every possible way that I could financially,
Brandon West:physically, emotionally, relationally, maritally, I gave up my, you know, you're
Brandon West:just like, I gave everything for this and I didn't get anything I wanted.
Brandon West:And then we look at the wake behind us and we're seeing not the
Brandon West:wake of mountains being created.
Brandon West:We're seeing like a wake of dead bodies behind us.
Brandon West:And we're like, what we're tempted to do in that situation is blame it on God.
Brandon West:God, I did everything that you told me.
Brandon West:I listened to your voice so carefully.
Brandon West:And now look at all of these dead bodies behind me.
Brandon West:Like, why didn't you show up?
Brandon West:You're not good.
Brandon West:You weren't present.
Brandon West:Or we turn inward.
Brandon West:I would say, and, we turn inward and we go, Isaac is a leader.
Brandon West:There's no place for me in this company, no place for me in this marketplace,
Brandon West:no place for me in this church.
Brandon West:Look, look what I've done, uh, or look what God hasn't done.
Brandon West:And so the fact that sometimes it goes well makes us believe I am in control.
Brandon West:Sometimes it doesn't.
Brandon West:We have to, somewhere in the middle is going, look, I'm
Brandon West:gonna aim for great results.
Brandon West:I don't want to aim for anything other.
Brandon West:In my company, nobody in my company is going, yeah, Brandon, shoot lower.
Brandon West:You know, like everybody's like, just shoot lower and lower and lower.
Brandon West:People are going, no inflation.
Brandon West:I'd like to make more money.
Brandon West:I need more of this.
Brandon West:I need more of that.
Brandon West:Okay, well let's aim up and let's aim as high as we can.
Brandon West:Let's do everything that we can in pursuit of that high place that we've set.
Brandon West:And let's leave our hands wide open and go, if God doesn't want
Brandon West:those results, Let's define success in those moments differently.
Brandon West:There was a line in the book that I wrote where an outcome based mindset, you know,
Brandon West:I am what I do when I do great things.
Brandon West:I'm a great, I'm a great person.
Brandon West:I'm a great leader.
Brandon West:I have a lot of value and worth and watch me walk into a room and I got
Brandon West:confidence because I got awesome stories about everything I'm doing.
Brandon West:You know, people like you're talking about networking events and Oh,
Brandon West:hi, what do you do as a company?
Brandon West:And then people want to know, Oh, how big is your company?
Brandon West:Oh, how much revenue do you do?
Brandon West:Cause That will tell me how successful you are as a leader and
Brandon West:how much I want to listen to you.
Brandon West:We're not going to play that game.
Brandon West:The faithful leader says, I am successful if only I am faithful, regardless
Brandon West:of whether or not I am effectual.
Brandon West:I'm successful if only I'm faithful regardless of whether or not I'm
Brandon West:effectual because they go in the end, I can't control these outcomes.
Brandon West:I can't make sure that my beautiful 80 page strategic planning
Brandon West:guide that I put together for 2025 is, we spent weeks on it.
Brandon West:We spent hundreds of thousands of dollars investing in consultants.
Brandon West:And information and data to prove this amazing plan.
Brandon West:Then something blows up.
Brandon West:You lose a key player.
Brandon West:The business goes under lock.
Brandon West:It's forced into COVID 19, whatever it comes.
Brandon West:And all of a sudden your plans that you have are just eroding in front of you.
Brandon West:And you're tempted to think in pursuit of what do I do next?
Brandon West:you're you're saying things about yourself that aren't true.
Brandon West:You're saying things about God that aren't true.
Brandon West:And it's because we've tied our sense of success to the wrong things.
Brandon West:Tightly We've got to hold tightly to God, loosely to everything else.
Brandon West:And man, how that protects our emotional wellness.
Brandon West:And to, you know, Tim, like you said, in all honesty, I wish I
Brandon West:could do that well every day.
Brandon West:I remember when we went through the first draft on the book, I
Brandon West:remember it was just a Google doc.
Brandon West:You know, you just write the book in Google docs, share with people, go
Brandon West:through the editing before you get into a publisher and all that good stuff.
Brandon West:My wife was one of the first people I had read through it.
Brandon West:And I just remember this little Google comment, comments on this one
Brandon West:little line, you can see the little bubble pop out and she goes, Can I
Brandon West:remind you of this in the future?
Brandon West:I, I wrote that book because I need to be reminded of it.
Brandon West:We just together as a team, it's, our FOS giving party today here at FOS
Brandon West:and just an hour ago, we spent, uh, 30, 40 minutes together as a team.
Brandon West:Just writing down things that we're thankful for.
Brandon West:And I, as we started that activity, I just pointed out to him how many times the word
Brandon West:remember is in the Bible, like, remember this because you're going to forget.
Brandon West:Remember that one of the things my wife wrote down a couple of
Brandon West:days ago in our household that she's thankful for two hands.
Brandon West:I doubt two weeks ago she would have written that down.
Brandon West:Today, she's reminded of it.
Brandon West:How beautiful it's having two hands when one of them's in a cast.
Brandon West:We need to remember, we need to come back to God and say,
Brandon West:you're at the center of all this.
Brandon West:I just, tightly to you, loosely to everything else.
Tim Winders:Sure.
Tim Winders:as a leader of an organization, a successful agency, let's just
Tim Winders:say you've had 12, sounds like 12 plus years of running the agency.
Tim Winders:what's the most important, guess, leadership characteristics, traits that
Tim Winders:you can share with us that is important?
Tim Winders:What's the most important thing as a leader right now in the organization?
Brandon West:Yeah, let me answer that, personally, and then I'll answer that.
Brandon West:a little bit more globally, I have been so challenged by the leadership culture
Brandon West:that I'm in right now at the church that I pastor at, at salt church, the
Brandon West:leadership team there, the pastoral team, the elder team, that shepherds
Brandon West:that church has taught me so much about this one leadership concept.
Brandon West:That I think I've highly devalued in most of my leadership experience.
Brandon West:I don't think it comes naturally to me.
Brandon West:It's probably why I've devalued it.
Brandon West:I think our culture devalues it as well, but the thing I'm being
Brandon West:most challenged right now in my own leadership about is gentleness.
Brandon West:We love choleric red leaders.
Brandon West:They run the world, you know, people who can just walk in and
Brandon West:go, you shut up, you get this done.
Brandon West:Where are we at on this?
Brandon West:you world shakers.
Brandon West:And how many like, like if there's any television shows out there that are
Brandon West:about leadership or that exemplify the concept of leadership, all of the leaders
Brandon West:in those movies are all red leaders.
Brandon West:go this, go this way.
Brandon West:And then like, you got like the Marines and, and, and you got like.
Brandon West:None of the soft leaders, none of the soft, let's go.
Brandon West:You know, there's a place for that.
Brandon West:And there's a beauty to that.
Brandon West:And I am naturally wired that way.
Brandon West:But man, that, that doesn't work with everybody.
Brandon West:That doesn't work with everybody on your team.
Brandon West:That doesn't work with all your kids that most of the time
Brandon West:doesn't work with your wife.
Brandon West:Like I have been so challenged recently to go, Am I a gentle leader?
Brandon West:Am I, am I a gentle person?
Brandon West:Do I have a gentle demeanor?
Brandon West:Do I have a warm persona that invites people into my leadership
Brandon West:and what God's calling me to do?
Brandon West:I think my global answer on what's most important with
Brandon West:leadership fits into that category.
Brandon West:A good friend of mine, John Spence, he's one of the most world renowned
Brandon West:leadership experts in the world.
Brandon West:He, does this activity when he's in a workshop where he asks all the leaders
Brandon West:in the room to write down at the top of a paper of two columns, the names
Brandon West:of two leaders that they've, really loved in their leadership, like two
Brandon West:leaders, you've really looked up to.
Brandon West:And he asks like, write down things that you loved about each of those leaders.
Brandon West:I love this about them.
Brandon West:This is what And then once that whole list is created, he says, next to them,
Brandon West:I want you to write down one of two things, either IQ or EQ is this thing
Brandon West:that you loved about them, something that they did pointed to them being really
Brandon West:smart, really good at what they did.
Brandon West:That's why you love them or EQ.
Brandon West:There's something about them, their character, the way they treated people.
Brandon West:And he said, for every one IQ, there's nine EQ.
Brandon West:The things that we love most about leaders, we exalt the highly competent,
Brandon West:but we love the highly emotional, the high emotional quotient leaders in our lives.
Brandon West:At the end of the day, most of our leadership is really just about character.
Brandon West:Like who we are, how well we care for other people.
Brandon West:And he said, you get a room of executive leaders from across the world to do
Brandon West:that activity and see how high EQ is all of a sudden this barrier goes down
Brandon West:on EQs, the soft garbage of the world.
Brandon West:We don't need that.
Brandon West:You teach us how to run our scorecards better.
Brandon West:And then he runs that activity and they're like, all right, we'll We'll listen.
Brandon West:Cop character.
Brandon West:Over competence.
Brandon West:That's great leadership character over competence.
Tim Winders:Yeah, and the good thing about that, what you, this is
Tim Winders:what I heard as you were talking, you didn't specifically say it,
Tim Winders:but I heard gifts of the Spirit.
Tim Winders:You know, I heard The biblical foundation of, and to me, I think there's the gifts
Tim Winders:of the spirit are in order for a reason.
Tim Winders:There's a reason love is first.
Tim Winders:And then I think everything else spills from that.
Tim Winders:But that was interesting gentleness.
Tim Winders:that's something that I think I tempt to work on also.
Tim Winders:Thanks for sharing that.
Tim Winders:I think that was a nice little mini masterclass that you gave.
Tim Winders:Brandon, why write a book with the title?
Tim Winders:I'm going to read the title with the subtitle.
Tim Winders:It's not your business to succeed that first of all, it's, it's going
Tim Winders:to be right there on the shelves with the success books, right?
Tim Winders:It's not your business to succeed your role in leadership when
Tim Winders:you can't control your outcomes.
Tim Winders:What's up with what's up with that?
Brandon West:C.
Brandon West:S.
Brandon West:Lewis has a book that maybe is one of the less prominent, less
Brandon West:known books because it's actually just the collection of letters,
Brandon West:letters that he wrote to a friend.
Brandon West:It's called letters to Malcolm and in one of these letters, Malcolm had written
Brandon West:to him about an initiative that he had undertaken that wasn't producing the
Brandon West:result that he wanted this initiative, big initiative, a lot of investment.
Brandon West:It wasn't producing the results.
Brandon West:And C.
Brandon West:S.
Brandon West:Lewis wrote back and he, and he writes Malcolm and he says, Malcolm,
Brandon West:it is not your business to succeed.
Brandon West:It is only your job to do what is right and then entrust the
Brandon West:results to a faithful God.
Brandon West:If each of us could grasp that this week, not, not the
Brandon West:leadership applications are clear.
Brandon West:Take your mind, take your eyes off of your profit and loss statements, set them on
Brandon West:the people around you and go, Hey, what's most important in our purpose this week?
Brandon West:How do we build something that's actually worth working for?
Brandon West:But there's so many more applications.
Brandon West:This book that I mentioned that I'm reading by Gary Thomas, Sacred Marriage.
Brandon West:How do we apply even that same thinking to our marriage?
Brandon West:It is not your business to succeed, but only to do what is right.
Brandon West:What's your role in leadership when you can't control your outcomes?
Brandon West:Gary Thomas would say, Hey, you realize the purpose of marriage
Brandon West:is not to make you happy.
Brandon West:You go back home tonight and you believe that marriage is about making you happy.
Brandon West:Every single time your wife doesn't make you happy or doesn't do the thing that you
Brandon West:would have chosen to make yourself happy.
Brandon West:You're tempted to think, why am I married to this person?
Brandon West:They don't care about me.
Brandon West:They don't love me.
Brandon West:Does God even love me?
Brandon West:I hate this thing.
Brandon West:And then as soon as we get deep enough into that, we're like, I'm out.
Brandon West:And we abandoned marriage.
Brandon West:He Gary Thomas would say, what if the purpose of marriage wasn't
Brandon West:about making you happy, but it was about making you holy.
Brandon West:Here's another place where it's like, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Brandon West:It's not about the outcome.
Brandon West:Me being happy in marriage, it's about actually who I'm becoming.
Brandon West:What's my role in my marriage.
Brandon West:Let me ask you this.
Brandon West:What's your role in your parenting when you can't control your
Brandon West:outcomes, we go, Oh, you know, we ask like, like older parents were
Brandon West:like, Oh, tell me about your kids.
Brandon West:What are they doing?
Brandon West:And we'd love to say like, Oh, he's in, he's at this prestigious university.
Brandon West:Oh, he just landed this great job.
Brandon West:Oh, they just purchased their first home.
Brandon West:And it's like, wow, you're such a great parent.
Brandon West:You can't control the outcomes of your kids.
Brandon West:Like what happens when they wind up in prison, they wind up in a rehab facility.
Brandon West:It's like, man, I taught them the gospel.
Brandon West:I worked with them.
Brandon West:I want, you know, like I can't control them.
Brandon West:It's not your business to succeed.
Brandon West:It's your business to be faithful, to bring them the gospel and love
Brandon West:and care and correction encouragement and counsel over and over again.
Brandon West:the parents who sit there and go, I've told you this a million times.
Brandon West:God's going to look over those parents and be like, well done,
Brandon West:good and faithful servant.
Brandon West:And like you're doing the right thing when we're doing what God's asked us to
Brandon West:do in our parenting, in our marriage.
Brandon West:In our leadership, in our business, in our ministry at church, in our
Brandon West:connection groups, in our friends, with our family, over those things, God
Brandon West:would say, you be faithful unto death.
Brandon West:I'll give you the crown of life.
Brandon West:That's the best.
Brandon West:That's the best promise we have.
Tim Winders:Yeah.
Tim Winders:Brandon, it sounds like.
Tim Winders:Shelly believes this book, you wrote it for yourself, but when you were writing
Tim Winders:it, who, who did you have in mind?
Tim Winders:Who was the reader?
Tim Winders:Who was the audience going to be as you were writing it?
Brandon West:It's the honest leader.
Brandon West:It's this book is written for the honest leader.
Brandon West:You who put on a mask every day and walk into every single networking event
Brandon West:and every single community event and somebody asks you, how are you doing?
Brandon West:To you who say, great.
Brandon West:Good, great, amazing.
Brandon West:Life's amazing.
Brandon West:God's so good every you're a liar.
Brandon West:You're not an honest leader.
Brandon West:you are broken.
Brandon West:and you just have a hard time being honest and inviting people into pain.
Brandon West:You would prefer, as I do, to put on a mask.
Brandon West:to feign success, even in the hardest seasons.
Brandon West:And we don't know how to deal with and communicate our trust in God
Brandon West:when we're struggling to understand his sovereignty in the middle of
Brandon West:pain, personally or professionally.
Brandon West:This book is for the honest leader who goes, leadership is hard.
Brandon West:Oftentimes my sense of success and identity are tied to
Brandon West:things they shouldn't be.
Brandon West:My bottom line, my bank account, my reputation, and they're going,
Brandon West:I know that's not the way it's supposed to be, but I'm having a
Brandon West:hard time getting unstuck from that.
Brandon West:And I'd like to trade the soul crushing weight of outcomes for the soul
Brandon West:lifting joy of a life lived for God in faithfulness and surrendered to His plan
Tim Winders:so what do you say to someone who's, they're
Tim Winders:still listening in, let's say.
Tim Winders:And they're, they're kind of struggling with this moving
Tim Winders:from the beyond outcome based.
Tim Winders:I know read the book is one thing.
Tim Winders:Let's tell them to get the book, but I guess just give a word of
Tim Winders:encouragement for someone who it's really hard for them to let go.
Tim Winders:If they're a control freak, like we talked about you being in, but they know they
Tim Winders:need to, they're being nudged pretty hard.
Tim Winders:Give a couple words of encouragement.
Brandon West:let me, let me just first say, when I wrote this book
Brandon West:at the very last second, I was asked by my publisher Write A Forward,
Brandon West:and I said, forwards are dumb.
Brandon West:I don't read them.
Brandon West:And he said, you need a forward, you have to write it, Brandon.
Brandon West:And I said, fine.
Brandon West:What?
Brandon West:What is a good forward?
Brandon West:And he just said, wrote.
Brandon West:forward why you wrote the book.
Brandon West:I wrote that book because I need it because every single day when I walk
Brandon West:back in the office and I'm shooting for great business for a greater
Brandon West:purpose, I'm shooting for a profit and a margin that fuels a greater purpose.
Brandon West:I am tempted to go back to the outcome based mindset and say, yeah,
Brandon West:God's sovereign, but it's on me.
Brandon West:But it's on me.
Brandon West:We're called to be faithful.
Brandon West:That's a high, high calling in all of our activities to be like Christ, to model
Brandon West:Jesus to our team, our family, the world.
Brandon West:That is a high enough calling right there.
Brandon West:Let us not, in the same degree of accepting that, accept a responsibility
Brandon West:that lays way too much on us.
Brandon West:You can't control your outcomes.
Brandon West:If you say this is success this year will be us doing and accomplishing
Brandon West:this one thing and it doesn't happen.
Brandon West:You can say nothing over yourself except you are a failure.
Brandon West:As a leader, as a parent, as a husband, as a wife, whatever.
Brandon West:That is, that's too much.
Brandon West:so we run to the father again and again and again.
Brandon West:What does running to the father look like?
Brandon West:Surrender.
Brandon West:Surrendering outcomes, surrendering purpose, surrendering finances, the time
Brandon West:that we have, the gifts that we have, and just saying, Jesus, they're all yours.
Brandon West:They're all on the table.
Brandon West:My whole business, my whole life, my kids, my parenting, my
Brandon West:marriage, it's all on the table.
Brandon West:Use it for your glory and shape me in the middle of it because who I'm becoming is
Brandon West:more important than what I accomplish.
Brandon West:I wrote the book for me and I hope that as you read it, you'll get a sense of that
Brandon West:and the true joy of coming to the Father again and again and again in surrender.
Tim Winders:I think that's good advice and coaching for the leader
Tim Winders:that is, we'll call it burden if that may not even be the right word.
Tim Winders:But Brandon, I would love right now for you to, there's a few
Tim Winders:resources that I know you have.
Tim Winders:You've got the book we just talked about.
Tim Winders:You've got your agency and I think you've got a new ebook that's coming out.
Tim Winders:could you give all those coordinates now?
Tim Winders:And then I've got one more question that we're going to wrap up with.
Brandon West:Absolutely.
Brandon West:Amazon has my book.
Brandon West:It is not your business to succeed.
Brandon West:My personal website,
Brandon West:brandonmichaelwest.
Brandon West:com has, our podcast that we did the top 10 life and leadership lessons learned in
Brandon West:our first 10 years at FOS has articles, things I speak on and opportunity requests
Brandon West:speaking, but FOS's website, FOS creative.
Brandon West:com.
Brandon West:PHOScreative.
Brandon West:com has a ton of really cool learning articles on marketing and branding
Brandon West:and consulting and leadership.
Brandon West:But it's also got two really fun resources on it.
Brandon West:One is an eight page prayer guide that we made for strategic planning to
Brandon West:submit our plans to the Lord as we go into strategic planning as a business.
Brandon West:And then a bigger 40 page ebook that we've written on, Flourishing at
Brandon West:work and this mission that we have to cultivate true flourishing and people
Brandon West:and organizations while reflecting the love of Jesus of the world is best
Brandon West:seen in six dimensions of wellness, financial, intellectual, spiritual,
Brandon West:physical, emotional, and relational.
Brandon West:And we've developed a really cool framework that we've just given to
Brandon West:the world for free so that they can go implement a flourishing culture
Brandon West:inside of their organization.
Tim Winders:Those resources sound good.
Tim Winders:We'll make sure all the links are down in the notes.
Tim Winders:Brandon, we're Seek, Go Create.
Tim Winders:Those three words.
Tim Winders:I'm going to allow you, to pick one of those words and why, and don't ever think
Tim Winders:it just what resonates the most with you means the most to you right now.
Tim Winders:Seek, go or create.
Brandon West:We, our full name is two words, Fost Creative.
Brandon West:I'm going to have to go with create.
Brandon West:You were designed to go and create big things for the Lord, whether
Brandon West:that's big things for one person, 100 people, or 1 million people, you
Brandon West:are called and gifted with things that can go and bless the world.
Brandon West:Go find those and God will use you in big ways for one or 1 million.
Tim Winders:bringing all these topics together that have been
Tim Winders:extremely important to what we do here at Seek, Go, Create.
Tim Winders:We're, we're approaching our 300th episode and probably what
Tim Winders:you've discussed and talked about encapsulates as well as anything.
Tim Winders:What we're all about as far as the journey and success.
Tim Winders:I'm going to highly recommend I've got it on my Kindle here.
Tim Winders:I'm going to hold it up, but highly recommend you get, it's
Tim Winders:not your business to succeed.
Tim Winders:I read that over the last few days.
Tim Winders:Excellent book, great read, good resource.
Tim Winders:I'm going to recommend people get that and check out the other
Tim Winders:resources that Brandon mentioned.
Tim Winders:We are seek, go create here.
Tim Winders:I appreciate everyone listening in.
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Tim Winders:listening until next time continue being all that you were created to be