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Self Awareness - Tools To Learn About Yourself | Season 3 Episode 4

For us to become an effective and compassionate leader, we must first know who we are. Self-awareness enables us to understand more of our strengths and weaknesses, our likes and dislikes. It allows us to make decisions beneficial for our community and lives. As a result, we find the areas in ourselves that we need to improve on, which can lead us to become better people and better stewards of this world. We need self-awareness tools because we want to improve.

In this episode, host Tim Winders talks about the importance of self-awareness tools and how they can help you become a better leader. Additionally, he will share the tools and assessments that have helped him be a better father, husband, and coach. Tim, for instance, encourages us to take these assessments and discover how we can be better stewards of this earth. 

If you want to learn more about yourself, listen to the full episode.      

3 Reasons to Listen:

  1. Discover the importance of self-awareness. 
  2. Learn about the several tools and assessments that can help you understand yourself better and consequently, learn more about yourself.
  3. Tim shares advice on how to be a better partner, leader, and steward.  

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Episode Highlights

[02:22] The Importance of Self-Awareness

  • In this episode, you will learn that self-awareness is about understanding our strengths and weaknesses. As a result, we can be more effective and passionate. 
  • Self-awareness also crosses over generations, in this segment. Today, young people have to gain more self-awareness because they continue to connect online, compare themselves to others, and deal with relationship struggles and mental health disorders. 
  • Even though the past generation is not as tech-savvy as the new generation, as a result, they still need to gain self-awareness. Thus, they tend to be rigid and dogmatic. Older people tend to feel that they're always right. 
  • Self-awareness is essential when making decisions, in essence.    
“We need to know ourselves to understand ourselves, to be able to be clear on what we talked about earlier: strengths and weaknesses, and how we can be more effective.” - Click Here To Tweet This

[05:23] Ways to Understand Yourself More

  • In this episode, you will learn that you can ask your spouse, partner, or other people closest to you to gain insight into your personality. 
  • There are helpful personality profiles, assessments, or tests you can take to have a glimpse of who you are nonetheless. 
  • To illustrate, Tim uses personality assessments to know if the client who wants to work with them is teachable or coachable. 
  • In this episode, you can use these personality assessments to identify the people you're working with and also help them understand themselves better. 
  • Personality tests do not define you. Nevertheless, they can help you become a better spouse, father, or influencer which happens when you understand who you are 
“When you understand more of who you are, it can help you lead better. It can help you be a better spouse, help you be a better parent. It can help you be a better influencer and a better steward.” - Click Here To Tweet This

[13:12] Personality Profiles You Can Try Acting as Self-Awareness Tools

“That's why this (building strong relationships) is a constant thing. It's a process. We're always learning. We're always growing.” - Click Here To Tweet This
  • Listen to the full episode to learn more about the personality assessment tools in order to understand yourself better.
  • In this segment, Tim shares his reflections about the results he received.  

[22:46] DISC Personality Types & Profiles

  • The DISC profile talks about dominance, inspiration, steadiness, or compliance. 
  • Through DISC profile, you are forced to make a decision that determines what you are in your primary behavior patterns. 
  • In this episode, it discusses that D is for dominant or direct, I for inspiring or interactive, S for supportive or steady, and C for cautious or careful.
  • The DISC personality types and profiles can be valuable for teams, leaders, families. 
  • Listen to the full episode to know Tim’s DISC profile!

[27:06] Enneagram as One of the Self-Awareness Tools

  • In this episode, you will learn Enneagram. Enneagram is one of the most popular self-awareness tools for the younger crowd. 
  • It introduces nine personality types: perfectionist, giver, achiever, individualist, investigator, loyalist, enthusiast, challenger, and peacemaker.
  • It can be fun to do this with your team or your family and you have will have quality time with them, as a result.
  • Listen to the full episode to know Tim's enneagram personality type! 
“Be more self-aware so that you can become like what we've been talking about this season: a better everyday leader, a good steward, someone who's growing, someone who's becoming better and better.” - Click Here To Tweet This

[32:53] The 5 Love Languages

  • The Five Love Languages assessment is a must for couples. As a result, it can help build their relationships and know more about each other
  • Dr. Gary Chapman introduced the Five Love Languages to the world. In this segment, it aims to help people understand how they give and receive love. Its main principle is, “What we attempt to give is what we desire.”
  • Here, you will discover that the five love languages are physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, and receiving gifts. 
  • Listen to the full episode to know Tim's love language! 
“We do just want to be better. That means we're being a good steward of the gifts that we have been given.” - Click Here To Tweet This

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Tim Winders knows what it looks like when everything falls apart—and what it takes to rebuild.

After losing two businesses, his home, and starting over in a Honda van in 2013, Tim rebuilt his life from the ground up. That season reshaped how he understands success, leadership, ambition, peace, and what truly matters.

Across more than four decades, Tim has built businesses, coached founders and executives, developed leaders, and helped organizations navigate growth, complexity, change, and reinvention. His experience as an engineer, entrepreneur, coach, and executive leader gives him a practical perspective on the difference between rapid growth and sustainable growth—and between achievement and a meaningful life.

Tim created and hosts Seek Go Create, a long-form podcast with more than 300 episodes exploring faith, leadership, purpose, the Kingdom of God, and the questions that shape how we live and lead. He is known for his genuine curiosity, deep listening, and willingness to ask questions others may overlook—or hesitate to ask.

Much of Tim’s current work examines the New Testament through its first-century setting and original audiences. His NT90 reading project helps people encounter the New Testament in the order its books were written and consider what those writings meant to the people who first received them.

His books include Coach: A Story of Success Redefined and The Visit: The Story Continues. Through his writing, conversations, and teaching, Tim invites people to question inherited assumptions, think more deeply, and pursue lives marked by greater faith, clarity, peace, and purpose.

Engineer by training at Georgia Tech • Author • Executive leader • Creator and host of Seek Go Create • Student and teacher of Scripture

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